Another thing that I need to catch up on: Â My little man is potty trained. Â He’s been for… oh, a couple months now? Â He was potty trained right after he turned 2, which people never stop telling me is highly unusual – especially for a boy. Â Well… it’s not so unusual for OUR boy, no? Â *smile*
A couple people have asked how we did it, upon noticing the lack of “diaper bulge” when we’re out and about, but I have little advice to offer. Â As always, I simply followed his lead. Â When we was around 6 months old, I considered trying “elimination communication” with him and purchased a little red potty. Â It’s been sitting in the bathroom since then. Â I was too lazy to do the elimination communication thing, though, especially since he was, at 6 months, “a late starter.” Â The only advice I can possibly think to offer, then, is this: Â Don’t be shy. Â Chris & I have not been at all shy (ahem) about bathroom habits. Â Felix has seen everything & has always tended to wander in and hang out. Â Since his little red potty is in his bathroom, he would often sit on it and wait. Â I’m sure that has much to do with it. Â We never pushed and never made a big deal out of it. Â I did notice that he found the whole idea pretty interesting (I know, strange, but we’re talking about toddlers here) and liked sitting on his potty. Â Then I found out that, in order to go to preschool, he needed to be fully potty trained. Â So I started letting him run around the house sans diaper and pants and would occasionally ask if he wanted to sit on the potty. Â After only a couple of days, he was totally in to the idea. Â At home, without his pants on, he just started going to sit on his potty whenever he had to pee. Â Flash forward to now – he never wears diapers during the day, even when we’re out and about. Â We’ve been out for entire afternoons and he will always ask to go.
Poop (just what you want to hear about, right?) was another matter. Â For a couple of weeks, it seemed to frighten him and he would get frantic whenever he’d feel like he had to go. Â For about a week, he drove me mad by asking me to “wipe” him every 5 minutes, for hours on end. Â And then he’d poop on the floor, which cracked me up. Â I didn’t care that he pooped on the floor, I just didn’t like the endless demand of “wipe wipe wipe?” Â That lasted for a couple of weeks and then he started going on the potty. Â Another couple weeks of letting him run around without pants all day (because that was the next hangup) and then I eased him in to wearing underwear (toddler boxers briefs! Â CUTEST THING EVER) and now it’s all exactly what you’d expect from a civilized, socialized person. Â And I will say… having a potty trained kid, at 2 years, is freaking awesome. Â Life truly is grand, after diapers. Â But other than “don’t be shy” the only other bit of advice I have doesn’t work for everyone because it seems like parents just get obsessed with the process: Â don’t stress out, don’t push. Â This all happened, for us, because we didn’t care that much. Â It was “if you want to, here’s the option but if you don’t want to, cool. Â Do whatever.” Â I mean, I had a little internal pressure going on about the preschool thing but I knew that the worst case scenario would be that he’d start a little later than we wanted. Â No big deal.